Working out Whether Your Date Is into You

It can be difficult when working out whether your date is into you. You will need to make sure that you understand how to read your date and how to know if they are interested or if they are just being polite. Whenever you are with a person that is not interested in you it can really be hurtful and uncomfortable. This is why you need to be able to spot it right away so that you don’t waste any of your time on them.

Body Language

A person’s body language is the best way for you to be able to tell how they feel about you. Whenever you talk to this person, look to see if they lean in or if they lean back when you talk. If they lean in they are interested in what you are saying. However, if they are leaned back they are more than likely not into you. Check their eye contact and make sure that they are looking at you and not elsewhere. A person that is looking everywhere but at you is more than likely trying to find a place that they can go to other than with you.


The conversation that you have with them is something else that is going to have a lot to do with how they feel about you. If they are making conversation hard, then they may just be shy. However, if they don’t seem to be trying at all, then chances are they are not very interested in you.

Posted: May 24th, 2011 under Date Types, General.